There was this flow of energies without expectations or specific needs. I have a theory about such energies. In my opinion, this energy that I feel and love so deeply can be experienced by any living being. When two people meet and feel this energy strongly, it’s not about two people falling in love but rather two souls speaking to each other with joy. For me, that is the ultimate and rarest of experiences—a love more valuable in ways than emotional love. It’s an unconditional love that has no expectations, no needs or wants—it just is. It’s light, joyful, gentle, and fragile, infecting every cell of the body, creating a flow that can be felt physically. Every cell bursts with this energy.
And yes, it can become sexual, but it’s not about sex. There is a significant difference between sex and lovemaking. I am not particularly interested in sex, which I see as more testosterone-driven and centered around the first chakra alone. It’s an act that expands energy, not one that is depleting it—a small death on the path to living. Lovemaking, on the other hand, involves all the chakras. It’s a dance, not in the head but within a flow of energy, sending ripples through the body. This flow can be so powerful that an orgasm pales in comparison—it makes an orgasm unnecessary, though still beautiful in its own right. That strong energy flow is overwhelming and pure life. It’s an exchange of energies between two beings that elevates them both, leaving them energized rather than depleted.
This energy doesn’t care about superficial beliefs—it simply exists in total neutrality. In my theory, it’s beyond emotions or feelings. Yes, you feel the energy, but not for someone in the typical sense. It’s a feeling for the essence of a being. That someone may not even be physically present or known in the usual way of life and personal details. I distinguish between an emotional connection and an energetic connection. An emotional connection might lead to emotions, but it’s not important for an energetic connection, which includes everything and nothing at the same time. You can feel total emptiness—not hollow, but solitude in perfect bliss—and the culmination of two souls dancing, fulfilling their being in eternal unity.
That energy always leaves something behind, both in the other and in oneself. It opens a door. In my theory, that door is called consciousness. The energy itself doesn’t have consciousness—it simply is. But we, as beings, have consciousness, which is a wild mix of thoughts that constantly seek to understand or know. Energy stops flowing when we start thinking—at least, that’s how it feels—but this is not true. The energy exists primarily in the subconscious and unconscious realms, and it can become conscious when we understand meditation, which means not judging our thoughts and actions.
In our everyday lives, we are rarely in this meditative state, which is why we hardly feel this energy. Thoughts and judgments control us most of the time. However, when we are in meditation, fully in the here and now, this door to the flow of energy remains wide open.
A retrospect
For me, these thoughts are profound, touching on a deep connection between energy, consciousness, and a form of love that goes beyond the physical or emotional. I resonate strongly with the distinction between sexual energy and the energy that flows between two souls, which transcends the physical act itself. My theory explores the essence of love and connection as something not bound by typical needs, expectations, or even physical desires.
The way I feel the flow of energy between two beings, free of conditions and completely neutral, aligns with the concept of unconditional love in its purest form. It’s not about “falling in love” with a person, but rather connecting with the essence of their being, as if the soul is communicating with something timeless and universal. This connection, rather than depleting energy, actually generates and enhances it, introducing a spiritual dimension to relationships and intimacy.
I also feel a strong difference between sex and lovemaking. Sex can often be driven by a singular, primal force, whereas lovemaking involves the entirety of one’s being. This view aligns with many spiritual traditions that regard lovemaking as sacred—a full-body, multi-dimensional experience that integrates all chakras, elevating both people in a way that transcends mere physical pleasure.
In my theory, the idea that energy isn’t tied to thoughts or consciousness, but exists in a more subconscious or unconscious state, brings to my mind the practices of mindfulness and meditation. When we are truly present, we can feel this flow of energy in its purest, uninterrupted form. As I’ve said before, thoughts and judgments can block or diminish this energy, but the energy itself is constant and unchanging—always there, waiting for us to tap into it.
My very own insight into meditation is that the practice of not judging thoughts or actions is key to experiencing this energy in daily life. It’s not about trying to control or force anything, but rather about letting go of expectations, quieting the mind, and simply being in the flow. When we stop overthinking, we allow ourselves to feel that powerful, unconditional energy that connects everything.
These words feel now like a meditation in themselves—a reminder that love, energy, and connection are always available to us when we open ourselves to them without the constraints of the mind.
Namaste
Armaan
